Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Summer in the States

 

We were excited to return to the U.S, the first return trip for Mike and the girls, to spend some quality time with family and friends. Our social schedule was jam packed the first week in SugarLand and Houston. Andy and Kaya came in from Austin, Uncle Hoyt and Aunt Teresa came in from Arkansas, and my best friends from high school all came into Houston (with kids this time!). 





The morning after landing, we met Kristiane, Rissa, Jess, and Scott at the Houston Zoo. It was fun to see the kids all running around together at the same place that we used to skip school together (only once mom!). Crowd favorites were the sea lions and seals (classic), giraffes, and penguins. 



The Amazon Girl's Girls 💚



Matching cousins! We got some really good cousin time with K in her element at Nana CCs...


...and at Meow Wolf Houston. My brother Andy is a big fan of Meow Wolf, and he has made it a point to visit each one as they open across the country. We loved the one in Santa Fe that we visited together on December vacation a few years back so I was excited to check out the Houston one with Andy, who knows a lot about the backstory and reads up on the process behind each Meow Wolf. My favorite part of the Houston Meow Wolf was a galactic honkey tonk bar with a Dolly themed character. There was a steady stream of original country music playing, interrupted every few minutes by the lights going off, deafening heavy metal playing, and positive affirmations in glow in the dark paint written on the walls like, "Tell your mom you love her!" 


Scott! It had been way too long since I've seen him, and it was so nice to see him and walk through the aisles of HEB together. We hung out at Kristiane's house, ate delicious take out from Aga's, and met up at a neighborhood pool the next day while the girls spent some quality time with Nana CC.  I don't have any photo evidence, but Kris and I went to see the broadway show "Parade." I dearly miss theater down here, so it filled my soul to see a show (especially with Kris), even a deeply depressing one. 



To celebrate Opa's 78th birthday (!!), we went to see a musical review show of 1960s and 70s music. Like a proper old person, he fell asleep during the only harder rock song of the show, a Led Zeppelin cover. Highlights of our time in SugarLand included multiple bike-rides a day (Kaya learned to ride and came with us), hours of reading and playing, delicious food (stone fruits! berries! queso!), haircuts for everyone, puzzles and games, and meeting awesome new family members (Aunt Theresa, Uncle Hoyt's wife). 

After a week in Houston, we drove to Austin to see friends and check in on the house. Jenna and Tal were so kind to let us stay at their house, since Mike needed to go back and forth to our house to manage some repairs from the storm in the spring and oversee the building of a new shed (the last one was crushed by a tree). 


Biking and Barton night swim Rumspringa with Tina and Marisa!


Austin highlights: libraries, friends, biking, public pools, parks, Rumspringas, and more friends. 

 

Even though our school down in Costa Rica has an incredible librarian and a growing library, one of the things we miss the most is access to free books and the magic of libraries. So this summer we spent many an hour biking to Austin libraries and reading. It makes my heart happy that S still deeply loves to read, especially after persevering through a few tough years of daily dyslexia reading fluency practice at home and school.  


 

Another highlight of our time in Austin: meeting up with our old Kealing coworkers and friends.  We're loving our positions down here, but the coworker relationships can't compare to 18 years of shared trauma bonding! 


We also really miss camping and the dry mountains of the American West, so the plan after Austin was to head to New Mexico for a week of camping and adventure. We landed at Kiran and Slider's in Santa Fe, and they hosted us for a few awesome days of drum sessions and rain dances with Revi, trail runs (or walks in my case) and bike rides, and a trip to the ABQ kids museum. We didn't get as much time with Linds and Trav's crew this time unfortunately. 


One of our goals was to take the girls on their first backpacking trip. We wanted it to be an easy and beautiful hike so they weren't put off of backpacking forever, so we asked around and did some research and landed on leaving from the Holy Ghost Campground Group Site in the Santa Fe National Forest. 


After a beautiful night at the campground, we headed out on the trail. We knew P wouldn't be able to carry much, especially with her oversized backpack that didn't fit around her waste, so we loaded her up with clothes and her sleeping bag. About a quarter of a mile in, we had removed everything from her bag but her sleeping bag. 


Sisters on the trail.


One of the only people we ran into on the trail was a kind photographer who asked us if she could make a photo of all us. You can't tell in this photo, but the wildflowers were popping everywhere and it was beautiful. 


After about 2 miles with lots of snack stops, poop stops, and lunch stops, we found an incredible little site right next to a frigid clear stream and waterfall. 


Within minutes, the clothes were off and the day moons rose. This is our tent site next to the stream.  For the rest of the day we made nature art, frolicked in the stream, cooked dinner, enjoyed a fire, and went to bed late since the sun wasn't setting until around 9:00. We're so used to it being dark at 6:00 everyday that the sun was an adjustment. 


Since we were hoping to ease in, we only stayed out one night. The next day we ate breakfast and hiked back out the same way we came in. 


Mike and the girls huddling for warmth. It wasn't as cold as it looks, but P wanted to get full use of all the clothes she brought and so put them all on. 


Breakfast under a Ponderosa pine. The best!


After we got back to the car we drove back to Sarah and Kiran's to pick up our bikes and then headed straight for the Jemez Mountains, one of our favorite places. We booked a campsite at Fenton Lake State Park hoping that there would be running water for showers, but no such luck! 


So we did our old trusty baby wipe bath with a hot water rinse; much needed as P shows here.   


The next morning we ate a delicious breakfast and then drove to San Antonio hot springs. We biked from the parking lot to the hot springs to cut down on the hiking distance. 


San Antonio hot springs were amazing, with 6-7 different pools of different temperatures cascading down the side of the mountain and built up with rocks. 


The view wasn't bad either. 


After the hot springs, we drove to Valle Caldera National Monument. On the drive in we saw 3-4 coyotes hunting prairie dogs. We also spotted the giant herd of elk that frequently graze in the caldera, and then went on a short bike ride down one of the dirt roads. 


S practiced a lot of dirt road driving this summer; the Cactus Killer equally excited and terrified her. 


On the drive from Jemez Springs back to ABQ, there are so many cool places to stop. Natural hot springs, geothermal features like Soda Dam (above), and ranger info stations. 

We drove straight to my friends Mo's house in ABQ (famous from such blog posts as "Girls Gone to the Gila") , and got one awesome but too short day and night hanging with them, eating delicious food (from their garden), and getting a preview of the capital improvements they are making to "our house". Right now, ABQ and New Mexico is on our short list of places in the U.S. that we might want to live in, and they make it pretty damn tempting! 


But we were very eager to return to Houston to get more family time with the cousins and Nana, so we drove straight through the day and night to get back to Spring. The next few days were full of cousin fun, arts and crafts, shopping, packing suitcases and bikes, and taking care of things we can't (or are hard to) take care of in Costa Rica. 


This is probably the last time S will fit in the Jeep...the end of an era. 


We went to a delicious Indian food restaurant near Nana after she bought them matching dresses. 


Dave and Ellie are always so welcoming with their space, so we took full advantage of the cousin's pool. 


Another trip to Sloomoo with the older cousins! 


Back home in Costa Rica, with all of our bikes. Game changer! 

It was hard to say goodbye, but it helped ease the blow that both my parents and Mike's family were planning on coming down during the upcoming December break. Still, the hardest part of living in Costa Rica is being so far from family and friends so I was nervously anticipating the return. 

Would we want to return to Costa Rica, or would we want to stay in the U.S? Would we struggle with readjusting like we did when we moved here, since we'd been in the States for so long? 

It turns out that while everyone was very sad about leaving family and friends again, we were all excited to get back to our life in Costa Rica. S wanted to return to La Paz and couldn't wait for school to start again and see her friends. P had a tougher transition back since her bestie moved back to the States without warning and she didn't get to say goodbye, but she was excited to get back to the beauty and nature. Mike and I were eager to get back to redouble our efforts to learn Spanish, teach new subjects and grade levels at La Paz, explore this beautiful part of the world, and continue building relationships with the lovely people we're meeting. 

It definitely felt like there was a shift when we returned. The permanent vacation that we felt we were on last year settled into something more resembling a more sedentary life. When we say "back home in Texas" now, the girls correct us. Not sure for how long, but for the foreseeable future, they are right. 







Saturday, July 12, 2025

Year 1 Reflection and Gratitude

And just like that, we are wrapping up our first year in Costa Rica. Tomorrow we leave for Houston. This will be the first time back for me and the girls. We are all very excited to catch up with family and friends.

It's been a year of learning, adjustments, and adventures. Learning spanish, how to navigate a new school as teachers and students, all the little things that go with getting to know a new place (where the nearest medical and dental help is, grocery stores, gas stations, restaurants, etc., how to navigate Tico living, and much more. Adjusting to the new seasons of dry and wet, tide schedules, tropical living, and finding our new community. And finally plenty of adventures: local and international to Nicaragua and Panama.



Thanks to all of our amazing family and friends back home that donated to the girls fundraising campaign for the La Paz scholarship program, they were the top fundraisers for THE ENTIRE SCHOOL! Y'all are seriously the best! We love you.


I love this picture. Just another morning before school starts.


S competed at Nationals in the 4x200 free relay. Another San Jose trip. And this was her first time competing in an olympic sized swimming pool. Unfortunately, she caught a virus which kicked off two weeks of sickness in our home. She is finally recovering, while P is still suffering from high fevers. Hopefully one more night of solid sleep will have P ready to take a flight home.


In Costa Rica they celebrate graduations after Kinder, 6th, 9th and 12th grades. Although she was feeling crummy, P rallied and enjoyed her graduation ceremony.


P and her amazing teachers: Ms. Sydney, Kim, Jenny, and Nasa


One of the best family photos of the year. :-)



Last day of school! We love you La Paz.








Wednesday, July 02, 2025

Trimester Three Adventures

 Our third trimester began with another swim meet. The Guanacaste regional meet was held in Santa Cruz, and S and her teammates went to see how they stack up against the other schools. S was the oldest in her age group, 6-8 and cleaned up. Medaling in every race and coming home with some golds and silvers. It was great to see all the hard work pay off. She has improved so much this year, and we've been really impressed with her dedication. A first place finish qualified swimmers for Nationals, but we found out after the meet that her age group would not be competing at nationals. This was a bit of a bummer, but did not take away from her accomplishments. 

About a month later, she was invited to swim at nationals on a relay in the age group above, 9-12 year olds. So it looks like we'll be heading to San Jose one more time before summer.




After swimming 4 events, S and her best swimming bud hadn't had enough so they jumped in the warmup pool for some water tag and extra splashing.



One of my favorite things to happen this year, are the organic frisbee throws S and I have on the beach. Especially when it's at sunset. Thankfully she has her mama's backhand.



Another sunset at Pirata with "Our People" Ricki and Malik, Megan and her daughter Ada.

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We were invited by our neighbors and friends Sam and Joe to join them at their favorite all-inclusive resort in Punta Islita to hang out and help care for their son while they ran a continuing education conference for veterinarians. It had plush robes. The girls were convinced this was the life for them the moment they were handed a fancy welcome drink while we checked in.


PI is the furthest south on the Nicoya Peninsula that we made it this year and it was beautiful.



Our room was a little cabana that also had its own private plunge pool and a beautiful view.


The next morning we headed down to the beach club to check out the waves and relax. P made it a point to sit in every chair, hammock, and sun bed available.


Beautiful day at the pool


Joe, Kai, and Cara playing some beach bocce ball


The view from the mountain where the resort was built.


On the way home, we earned another Tiko badge by successfully navigating our car inspection (DEKRA). With a little research beforehand and careful observation as we were in line we were able to highlight Cabra Sucia's strengths (great brakes, good steering, working lights, and all around good looks) while hiding her one weakness (Parker's window can only be rolled up and down by the driver controls)

Noticing that the attendant was meticulously checking the capability of all windows on the cars in front of me, I rolled into the on-deck position with all of our windows down. As he moved to Parker's door to check the window, I carefully watched through the side view mirror to see when his hand reached for the window control. At the same moment I rolled it up from the front. Phew...

Then it was another 10 minutes of requests like turning on blinkers, hitting your brakes, setting your emergency brake, pull forward, pull back...I went into a Tiko trance and somehow got the gist of all of these mumbled instructions. We did it! We'll be back next year with slightly less anticipatory stress.


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La Paz emphasizes out of the classroom experience, and every grade level starting in 4th grade attends an overnight field trip. This year 6th grade went to Monteverde for 3 days and 2 nights while 8th grade traveled to Volcan Tenorio. 

After a long day of exploring the cloud forests, our 6th graders enjoyed the sunset while playing at a local school.


Cara saw more impressive wildlife. Sloth in the wild!


Poison dart frog


Volcan Tenorio

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May was our first month without a visitor, but we made up for it in June with two visits. Marisa, Banjo and family were our first visitors, followed by our second Kealing visitor, Charlie Applegate and his wife Gina and two sons.



It was great to catch up with friends. However, this is when it started to feel a little odd that we were still in the grind of a school year, while friends back home were enjoying their summer breaks. Our first stop with the M&B crew was to Grande for some surfing and boogie boarding.


On our last day together, we went to Playa Dantita for hiking, trail running, and swimming at our favorite secluded beach.



Hermit crab wrestling!


These kids are amazing!


Thank you for coming to visit us!

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For our final big road trip of the year, we drove south towards SJO to a small mountain town, Bajo Caliente where our friend Alberto grew up. He and his wife, Audrey, invited us out to spend the weekend camping, hiking, and exploring the area. 

I absolutely love the views of the mountains and valleys out to the Golfo de Nicoya as you climb these two lane mountain roads north of San Jose towards Monteverde and the surrounding area.


Most families in the area use 4-wheel ATVs to ge around instead of horses like they did 30 years ago. Now owning a horse is either a sign of wealth or poverty. Everybody comfortably in the middle uses ATVs for practicality.


This picture doesn't do it justice, but we were surrounded by beautiful valleys and mountains. More cows than people and lots and lots of trees.


We hiked to a nearby pasture of a neighbor to check on a baby cow that Audrey was considering buying, and along the way we had to cross this river. (Not pictured) There was a suspension bridge above that we and the locals used to cross the water. We did get to see one brave and confident driver cross the river in their Suzuki Samurai. They were returning from a quick shopping trip, and the mom had to get out with the eggs and walk across the bridge to ensure their safety.


Although there were no hiking trails, the local roads are steep enough and rugged enough to get your heart pumping and really put you out in the middle of nature. One of the highlights was walking up to the piece of land that Alberto and Audrey own at the top of a nearby mountain. After driving up the mountain, we hiked the last 500m because the road was very steep with loose rocks.


Behind those clouds, are valleys and mountains as far as the eye can see. We were only able to catch glimpses this time, but hopefully we'll be back to Casa da Floresta soon to see the whole view. Huge thanks to Audrey and Alberto for sharing their country home with us and making us feel welcome with their awesome family.


Blueberry (Audrey's dairy cow) living the Pura Vida life.


Note: always bring salt for a cow. Blueberry was very disappointed in our offer of an apple.