Saturday, June 13, 2020

Spring & Summer 2020 Reflections and the Lincoln National Forest (NM)

By the end of January, Cara and I had finally decided on what our summer adventure would be.  The plan was to combine the best of both worlds and take a road trip to visit friends and family and go camping while also going on an international adventure.  We would drive west and then book a flight from San Francisco to Japan for a 2 week trip abroad.  We started saving money in earnest and acquired a passport for Parker.  We were ready to go and starting to look for airline tickets to Japan.

Around March 18th, during Spring Break, we found out that Austin ISD had extended our break by one week in response to the outbreak of the Corona virus (COVID 19).  As the outbreak would quickly become a worldwide pandemic, our school was conducted online for the rest of the school year.  Cara and I were juggling teaching our classes while caring for and teaching Sybil and Parker at home.  

Given the new circumstances and the new normal of quarantine, we changed our summer adventure plans and decided on escaping to the US National Forests of New Mexico to enjoy the outdoors safely.  Dispersed camping is not something we can do easily in Texas because almost all of our land (besides our few national and state parks) are private.  We are hoping the higher elevations of the New Mexico mountains will provide some relief from the summer heat and an opportunity for us to challenge ourselves by "being bored" with plenty of time to be with the girls without an agenda.

On February 23rd Ahmaud Arbery (a black male) was murdered by two white civilians while jogging in Georgia.  It took over two weeks for the civilians to finally be arrested.  On May 25th, Amy Cooper (a white woman) called the police on Christian Cooper (a black man) over an argument about her dog being off leash and lied saying that he was threatening her and to send the police immediately clearly showing she understood that she had power over him when it came to police protection and the benefit of the doubt.  On the same day, George Floyd (a black man originally from Houston) was killed by a Minneapolis police officer setting off nationwide protests and unrest.  

It is odd sitting down to write a post about the amazing week we just had in the Lincoln National Forest while the country is grappling with tough questions about policing and facing our racist past and present.  We recognize that a part of why we can have these summer adventures is due to the privilege we've experienced our whole lives.  Financially we are able to enjoy these adventures because we have good jobs and a home that were easier for us to come by because of the hard work but also privileges our parents experienced while seeking their careers and providing for us.  We also have the privilege of traveling anywhere in the country and feel comfortable because we can expect to find others that look like us and that locals will give us the benefit of the doubt that we are not a threat and that we should be welcomed in to any situation.  These are huge privileges that are not experienced by a lot of our minority communities and needs to be recognized.

We believe our sphere of influence is mostly through teaching, but if you are interested in learning more about the issues which are being debated and protested right now I encourage you to watch and read the following.  I've been interested in equity as it pertains to education, and these are a few of the most influential books and a movie I've consumed to help inform me.

Given the current state of affairs in our country we loaded our car with reflective and appreciative hearts and hit the road.  First stop, the Lincoln National Forest of New Mexico.







We maximized every square inch of our Mazda CX-5 and got really close to the total allowed weight.  Our trailer hitch storage rack allows us to carve out a little space for Hudson.


Obligatory family photo to go on our National Parks hallway bulletin board!


Our first stop near Queen, NM had some pretty hot temps during the day, but the night and morning cooled off nicely.  Here is Sybil taking an early morning hike around our first campsite bundled up in Cara's vest.  We quickly learned we needed to bring in warm clothes for the girls the night before so that they could comfortably come out of their sleeping bags in the morning.


Enjoying a book after a mother skunk and her tiny kit came to say hello while we were eating breakfast.


Our first hike on Little Apache near Cloudcroft, NM.  We are discovering that 5 to 6 miles is going to be our limit, and that we travel on average, 1 mph, with all of the exploratory, snack, and bathroom related stops of a 4 year old.  Parker is in our hiking backpack and gets freedom to roam whenever we do stop.


Hudson enjoying a rare moment of comfort at our mountain top campsite near Cloudcroft.  He was filthy by the end of our first week and was always eager to go to sleep in our tent to get some relief from the elements.


Little Apache trail



Patiently waiting for breakfast on a chilly morning at our campsite near Ruidoso, NM.  We experienced our coldest night here, dropping below freezing.  It was 30ยบ at 6am when Parker and I made it to the car to warm up.



Grindstone Lake near Ruidoso, NM


The girls love splashing in water.  This man-made lake was COLD.


Parker post swim loving life. :-)


That is a bag full of our dirty clothes after 6 nights of camping! And we had done laundry at our campsite only 3 days before. A good indicator that it was time to leave the woods for civilization and recharge.  We booked an AirBNB in Las Cruces to clean up, take naps, and refresh before heading to the Gila National Forest.


Hiking on the Argentina Trail near Ruidoso.

Thursday, June 11, 2020

Summer 2019! - Phase 3 of 3

Road Trip


NoteThis post is being written almost a year later.  It was fun looking back on photos from last year while on the road this year.

This was our first road trip with the FULL crew.  We packed our CX-5 to the gills and maximized every inch!


Cherry Season!


First stop Lubbock, TX for a quick sleep.  Thanks to Kyle Henke for hosting us and getting us back on the road early the next morning.



Next stop, Albuquerque, NM to visit Lindsay and Travis and their awesome family.  We had an awesome time here and wish we could have spent a little more.




Our third stop was Denver to visit Matt and Crisnna and their new baby Madelyn, who is nearly the same age as Parker!

The Denver contingent of the Rutstein family!


Crisnna was so loving with the girls.


Dress up time doesn't have to stop just because you are on the road.


The other reason we made it to Denver was to compete at Master's Nationals.  My team Viejo exceeded expectations and finished 5th.  We had an awesome mix of veterans and new to the game old guys that just loved playing.


Cara reunited with some of her west coast friends to play with the Golden Poppies and won the title!


Celebrating with Chelsea.  Most of the weekend I had conflicting games and couldn't see Cara play much, but I did get to watch most of the finals with the girls.  After Denver we hit the road again north to South Dakota.


Teaching Sybil the important things in life, like how to properly clean a windshield.



Destination #4: Custer State Park


Parker's first camping trip?!  We don't have a tent big enough to fit the whole family.  So Sybil and Parent X sleeps in our two person tent, while Parker, Hudson, and Parent Y sleep in our 4 person tent.


We had a beautiful site reserved with plenty of space away from our closest neighbor so we didn't feel bad if/when the girls cried out while trying to get to sleep.


Custer State Park is known for their bison herds and they didn't disappoint.


Also a few beautiful lakes



Parker adapted to camping pretty quickly.


Destination #5: Minnesota/Wisconsin to visit Fran and Leslie and Caleb and Holly, and of course for the third annual SNIT!


Sybil and Noah showing us all how to properly enjoy the SNIT weekend.


Post SNIT we hung out at Leslie and Fran's for a week to enjoy the Minneapolis summer.  This is us enjoying breakfast at our favorite restaurant in town, Birchwood Cafe.


Dress up continues at the Children's Museum.


Parker turned 10 months old on Aug. 1st.


and we celebrated Cara's birthday just a couple of days before with Fran and Leslie.



Parker had a special gift for Cara!


Hud and best friend Patsy at the Mississippi River


Final Destination: Pocahontas, AR to visit Granny Bea and Aunt Faye.


Parker continuing the tradition of riding cars around the living room.



Sybil was really loving and sweet with both Aunt Faye and Granny Bea and loved to help them take their pills.

Visiting Granny Bea and Aunt Faye was a great way to finish a fantastic trip.  We just had a few days before school started when we got back which was one reason these final two posts took us so long.  It was a bit of a hectic start to the school year, but we wouldn't have it any other way.  Looking back at these photos a year removed reminds me of how fortunate we are to have so many loving friends and family members in our lives.  Thanks and love to all of you.







Summer 2019! - Phase 2 of 3

Austin Adventures

Note: This post is being written almost a year later.  It was fun looking back on photos from last year while on the road this year.

Our time in Austin was full of hikes and hanging at home and with friends, while Cara and I both trained a bit for Ultimate (Cara - Torch and Golden Poppies, and me for Viejo).




Turkey Creek crossing, my favorite spot to take Hud for some off leash time, and an awesome spot for the girls to splash around.


Roy G., another favorite spot for off leash and river splashing.


Back at Turkey Creek




Cara took Sybil to the fairy garden at Zilker Park.


We spent some time at the YMCA swimming.  Syb met up with a friend from school, Lucas, a few times to hang out.


Hanging around the house.  Parker never shied away from Hudson, and Hud has mostly been a good sport when she pokes and sits on him.


A lot of dress up time!



Plenty of time just goofing around.


And plenty of time to hang with friends.  We spent 4th of July at Kiran and Sarah's.  Sybil stayed up late with Cara to watch the fireworks.

We are always on the go during summer, it was a a nice change of pace to spend time with friends, slow down a bit with each other, and take the time to enjoy the places we love around town.  

We were ready to escape the heat and seek some adventure outside of Austin, our road trip was next!